You can deny it all you want but I know that many of you have felt conscious about their weight from time to time, especially during sex – it’s only natural. Fortunately though, thinking about your weight in bed is as useless as a chocolate teapot. Here are a few great reasons why being weight conscious during sex really doesn’t matter.
Feels > Looks
I don’t know about you guys but when I have sex, I want to enjoy the foreplay, feel my partner and ensure we both enjoy sex. Thinking about how much you weigh doesn’t really matter when the whole point of sex is to enjoy each other’s body. Before, during and after sex, you are with, on, under, on the side of and/or at angles to your partner.
Ladies, men want to do to you what insurance companies do to the people – screw you. Guys, your lady wants you to make her “feel” special and hit her G-spot as if it was Rihanna. When you stop caring about your weight, you get more time to think about how you’re going to have the best sex ever.
Confidence is Key
Nothing would turn most men on more than a cougar who wants to ravish them, a woman who knows her way around her man and knows how to please him. Research has shown that confidence is the key for many to sex. The truth is that it’s not about how much you weigh but how well you know your way in bed.
Did you know that there are more sex positions than there are yoga positions? Try experimenting because there are always positions that make sex better. Even if you are overweight, do you think your man would care over enjoying the best head in the world? Yeah, I don’t think so.
Science says it doesn’t matter
According to plenty of studies done on the sexual drives of men and women, it seems most people care about how sex feels more than anything. Studies show that individuals care more about whether they had an orgasm than what they weigh.Because let’s be honest if your partner knows how to give you an orgasm, does it matter what they weigh? Not really. If you have curves but can make a man feel powerless, does it matter what you weigh?
There is more to Sex than Penetration
Did you know that women can orgasm just by kissing? Most people who are conscious about their weight talk about penetrations comes into play. While penetration is important, there is a lot more to sex than just penetrations.
Fore-playing, role-playing, touching, heading, caressing, going oral, using toys, dancing, showering, kissing, rubbing, groping, stroking and moaning are all parts of sex you can enjoy. Not enough?
Whispering, biting, dripping, sliding, breathing, massaging, licking, slapping, sucking, pinching, choking, binding, begging and singing are all more prime examples of just how many things can get you off and do not really relate to weight.
After all, it’s not like the slim guy always gives better oral than the overweight one. Remember, the overweight guy knows how to eat – food amongst other things.
Sex has always been about feeling good and making your partner feel good – not about how much you weigh. Love your body, love your partner even more. From myself and everyone at YoungYou International, we want you to stay sexy and stay happy all the time!